Friday, August 29, 2008

David's Lesson

Yesterday's lonely meal at Gumby's was kind of an eye opener if I can say. When I get David.A's junk mail, for many reasons I enjoy reading his informative stuff on dating etc.. and what he has to say about many other important things. Yesterday was a live demo of one of his lessons and I was convinced it was the way to go about and make someone talk to you.

He also writes in AskMen.com. By the way this site is a must and recommended for guys. Lots of info on so many things ! Will surely help us ;)

Anyways, time to implement it what I learned [:D]

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Dhoondne pe bhagwanji bhi mil jate hain ! Google karne pe mera blog bhi mil jata hai !

What does he intend to write ? Is he in his senses ? "abba cha ! " -- may be some of the potential reactions I am expecting here for my line. If I crash landed into this blog for the first time I would have reacted more or less the same.

I was cent percent sure a noted few will never ever remember I blog. I doubted if they knew I blog in the first place, forget following it regularly. Too big an expectation. But finally they found their way here to read my poems, reportedly. Sweet ! :) Some efforts like googling my name etc, landed them here I guess. I laud their efforts. Finally arrived. :-|

This only goes to show that we aren't that super busy as we project ourselves to be. We can spend a minute to drop by and ask haal-chaal of people whom we care. We can, you see, do whatever it takes to keep it going IF WE WANT TO. But unfortunately that weren't to be. People are taken for granted. Friendships and relationships dwell when showered with unconditional love. Acts of ignorance turn them into a weak thread.

I thought my blog was the only sporadic one. But so is people's love for me. No worries. I exempt them from any guilt.

We either love people or we don't. It cannot be chequered. Let's respect relationships rather than toggling with them. Friends promising each other commitment for a life time, double check before signing the lease.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Acceptance is the first lesson of life. The toughest part is to be magnanimous when you lose and balanced when you win.